Surf and Turf

3/05/2013

CHINA

Ni hao!  We had a wonderful time on our trip to Beijing last week.  Even the 13 hour flight wasn't as bad as we thought it would be.
We left on Sunday morning, Feb. 24th and flew up the western coast, across the Aleutian Islands, and down over Siberia through north eastern China to Beijing.  We landed on Monday in the late afternoon.  After immigration, we were met by our tour company.  We were put into the group with the JFK people along with my sister Kami and her husband Russell.  Turns out it was the best group, so we were happy.  But since we landed with the earlier LAX group, we got to go to the hotel sooner.  Which was a blessing because we were tired.  We got to the Traders Hotel in downtown Beijing and were pleasantly surprised with how nice it was.  All of our literature said:  "this is not a vacation; it is an adventure" which led us to believe it would be slightly primitive.  It was not.  It was a 4 star hotel.  And the whole trip was an adventure AND a vacation.
We promptly went right to sleep even though it was only about 7:30 in the evening.

Each morning we enjoyed a fabulous breakfast buffet in the hotel dining room.  They served everything under the sun.  Besides the Western breakfasts, they had duck, sushi, noodles, soups, and even green salad every day.  I had wonton soup every single morning because it was so delicious.  And I made it a point to try something new each day also.  Most things I liked.  David would have a custom-made omelet, cold cereal, and waffles.  (boring!)  :-)

The first day, our tour bus took us to Tiananmen Square.  It's the largest public square in the world, capable of holding a million people.  Our tour guide, Peng (pronounced "pong") told us that there would be plain-clothed policemen or FBI-type of men listening to our group.  He was right.  As he explained what the buildings around the square were and what they were used for, there were always men lingering on the fringes.

Across the street from the square is the Forbidden City.  Practically all places -- even restaurants - have two statues of lions in front of them.  One male, one female.  (to scare off evil spirits)  The one behind us is the female.  And we know that because she has a baby under her left paw.  The male always has a globe of the world under his paw.
Anyway, the Forbidden City is a 9,999 room compound where the 24 emperors of the Ming and Qing Dynasties ruled for nearly 500 years (1420-1911).  We experienced the architectural splendor of the palaces, ceremonial courtyards and private quarters.  The place just went on and on and on. We would go through a building and there would be another courtyard and another building right after that.

A four-star rated toilet in the Forbidden City.  Not.

This was a rock garden that was amazing.  Even the ground was laid with individual itty-bitty rocks to form patterns.   I was thinking that a couple of my grandkids would have way too much fun climbing all over the rock formations. 
It took a couple of hours to walk the length of the Forbidden City.

Next stop:  the site of the 2008 Beijing Summer Olympics.  The "Bird Nest" is behind us.  The "Water Cube" is to the left of that.  (not in the picture)  We are standing on the axis road which runs in a perfect straight line for three miles through Beijing, centered on the Forbidden City.  Each building that we toured for the rest of the week had a paved or carved meridian line in it.  Cool.
Olympic Square.  Behind the vase in the background is where the torch is.
And yes, it was cold the whole week.  But we were prepared and it wasn't a problem.

Do you recognize the "dragon building" behind us?  It was shown in a lot of shots from the Olympics.  Heads of state stayed there.  Now it is a hotel and also the IBM offices.

The next day we went to the Sacred Way of Ming Tombs.  It's about 45 minutes outside of the city.  It is regarded as China's finest example of imperial tomb architecture.  It begins with a grand marble gateway that is more than 400 years old and is lined with 36 massive stone sculptures.  The people believe that you should touch this turtle where you want to be healed.  "If I only had a brain."  

Kami and David want their feet to be healed.  Or to run and not be weary. I'm not sure.

There are sculptures of officials, lions, elephants, camels and mythical beasts.
These places must be gorgeous in the spring and summer.  But traveling in the winter, we didn't have to put up with crowds or heat.  Toss up.

We stopped at a Jade Factory after the Ming Tombs.  Finding out how jade becomes what we see here was fascinating.   The ship in the picture was made from one stone.  We liked the lecture about it, but didn't like the big sales pitch at the end.  Felt like a time share hard sell.  
Lunch above the jade factory.  Our lunches were great every day.  Always served family style.  We ate with these same people for most of our meals.  We clicked with everyone in our group, but it turns out that we hung out with these guys all the time anyway.
At least 10 different dishes - not counting rice - were put in front of us.  Loved it.  After lunch, it was on to:

THE GREAT WALL!!  
We could walk one of two ways.  One way was hard.  The other: harder.  We chose the "hard" way because, although it was longer, it would offer better views.
It was nice to be out of the city the whole day.  Beijing was experiencing some major pollution that one day, and we missed the whole thing.  Nice.


This is the very highest point of the wall, and we are there baby!

Russell, Kami, me, David

This day was pretty cold and luckily got very windy and blew the smog right on outta there!  We wore the masks because it kept our noses warm.
We're at the Temple of Heaven.  It is the largest temple complex in China.  During each winter solstice, the Ming and Qing emperors would perform rites and make sacrifices to heaven praying for a good harvest for their empire.   

This is where the emperor would stand and talk to God.

This building is surrounded by the "echo wall."  We could talk facing the wall, and the people on the other side could hear us.
Lots going on here.  Bunches of people show up to exercise each morning in the park.  Others were  ballroom dancing.  Some, line dancing.  And then there were spontaneous choirs that were downright amazing.  
According to the emperor's Fengshui masters, it is the exact point where heaven and Earth meet.  It was built in 1420 without the use of a single nail.

Next stop:  The Summer Palace.  The Empress Dowager Cixi had it built for a summer retreat.  It is over 700 acres with gorgeous views, temples, pavilions, palaces and halls.  There is a large man-made lake (3 feet deep) that was frozen over in many places. 
We're standing in front of the extravagant Marble Boat that Cixi had made.  She used the funds meant for the modernization of the Imperial Navy to have it built.  (They were later overthrown - most likely because the Navy couldn't defend them.   Maybe practicing in 3 feet of water had something to do with it.)  Naturally a marble boat can't float, so Cixi (pronounced "see she") had mirrors placed all over and around it.  It gave the effect of rippling water.  She would eat her meals there.  It's called the most expensive dining room ever. The amount of greed and extravagance around this place is overwhelming.
The locals call this building the "pants" building.  It houses state run television and communications.   We remember seeing it during the Olympics. This picture was taken from our hotel room window.
In front of the theater where we saw an exciting acrobatics show.  It was AMAZING!  At one point while we were all clapping, Kami let out a big whistle.  Apparently the Chinese haven't heard that before and a whole row of them turned around to look.  It made me laugh hysterically; right then and later when we were trying to fall asleep.  Not an unheard-of thing for me to do.
We did an all-day optional excursion and started out with a visit to the Beijing Zoo to see the giant pandas.  There are less than 1,000 giant pandas remaining in the world and is considered a "National Treasure" by the Chinese Gov't.  After checking out all the pandas, we had an hour to stroll around the zoo.

There's a panda in the background between us.
David and I with Peng, our guide.
Next stop:  a rickshaw ride along Old Beijing's Hutongs (narrow ancient alleys).  They are maze-like alleyways and the homes have courtyards.  Cars don't fit down these alleys and that's why we had to get around on rickshaws.  We had lunch with a local family in their home.  It was yummy.  They had prominent pictures displayed of Chairman Mao.  I wonder if they do that because they have to, or because they really admired him.  Either way, it's sad.


We took a side trip to this bell tower.  Inside was a fancy tea house.  We were instructed on all the different kinds of tea and their medicinal properties.  I was fascinated.  One of us wasn't.
Then we got to climb up to the top where the bell is.  Super steep.  Good workout.  (Heaven knows we needed the workout each day with the wonderful food we got.)

Kami and I shopping at the Silk Market.  I loved the haggling.  Maybe too much.  Sometimes I didn't even want what they were offering, but I would haggle just for the sake of arguing.  Wait -- that's not a virtue worth bragging about . . .
Some of the signs we encountered were down-right hilarious.  One even said:
"This is what I've always wanted to talk to you:  protecting public property   you are the best."
"urinating into the pool    you are the best."  
"Flushing timely   you are the best"
Seriously??

After the tea house, we went to the Lama Temple.  The world's largest Buddha is there and is carved from a single block of sandalwood.  The monks live there and run the place and there is lots (and I mean lots) of incense being burned by people going from one area to another.  They pray and have to burn so many sticks as they progress through each pavillion.  

And then it was time for our special dinner:  Peking Duck.  It is carved at the table.  The skin is the best part (we were told) and I have to agree.  I cannot have duck anymore.  Nothing here in the States can compare as favorably as that was.

Our last day was a free day and we spent it on Wangfujing street - one of China's most famous pedestrian-only shopping areas.  We took the subway to get there and man, was it an experience.  The food vendors and what they were selling were, uh, interesting.  Our guide had told us that the Chinese eat everything in the sky except airplanes; and they eat everything in the water except boats.  And I believe it.  I didn't know people actually ate starfish, seahorses, all kinds of bugs (HUGE ones too), and baby bird fetus'.  But everything was skewered and fried and ready to go.  No thank you.   We had McDonalds instead.  Oh -- one night we had KFC.  It is a huge franchise there!  But not the chicken.  We ordered a bucket and it was half full.  And it came with three drinks, two rolls, and one small corn on the cob.  That's right.  One.  And it was only half of the cob to begin with.

Our flight home went quickly.  Well, as quickly as 12 hours can go.  And now I have to prepare my own food, clean my own room, and take myself wherever I need to go.  I could so easily be a princess.  A benevolent one though, mind you.  But I digress.  This trip was so wonderful. Memories to last a lifetime.  Thank you to my wonderful traveling companions.  You are the best!

2/14/2013

Kate's blessing

We went to Phoenix last weekend for Kate's blessing.   It was great to be with her family again.  Matthew kept us busy playing, going for walks, shopping and reading books.

 Playing a game on Papa's phone.
 Is that the cutest little face?
 This picture shows her cute socks.  Her mom wore fancy socks all the time too.
 Right before church.  Cute family.  Michael gave Kate a really nice blessing.  
Matthew and Papa.  
After Sacrament Meeting, David and I drove home.  Saying goodbye is always hard; especially when Matthew starts whining and crying.  He's old enough to know what's happening.  We miss all of them.

1/21/2013

Think Pink

Kate Emily Byram joined our family last week on the 16th.  She's our 10th grandchild.  What a little cutie.  
I got to Phoenix on Wednesday afternoon and Michael and Matthew came to the airport to pick me up.  Matthew calls both David and I "Papa" and every time I turned around in the car to wave or say hello, he would smile and whisper "Papa."  Love that little thing.  We went straight to the hospital to see Carly and Kate.  She had a cute little pink bow in her hair and Carly was so excited to show her off.  

 Little Matthew has no idea yet how his "only child" world is going to change.
Kate is 5 days old here.
This picture was taken right before I left to go home.  I always hate leaving after being with the kids.  Matthew was my little buddy for the 5 days and it just rips my heart out to leave.  We went for a walk every day, went shopping most days,  read countless books, played with blocks, and watched lots of Baby Einstein.  He and I shared a room and when he would wake up in the morning, he would stand up in his crib and I would say, "Good morning, Matthew."  He would get a huge grin on his face and say, "Papa!"
So here's to the new and improved Byram family.  And the Hales family too.

12/14/2012

Christmas Time Decorations

So last year I blogged about some of my most favorite and precious Christmas decorations.  This year I'm going all worldly:

 I used a pool noodle for the wreath.  Then wrapped it in leopard duct tape.  Michael's had a leopard poinsettia and I already had the black and the leopard ribbon.  Voila!

 Too bad all the ornaments aren't easily seen.  There are many shoe ornaments.  And purses.  And leopard.  And leopard shoes and purses.
 One year we received a large, real pine wreath and David put it up over the garage.  The nail has been there ever since.  So this year we used the nail again.

 New this year.  (the hanging ornaments)  And I hated to throw out the Cinderella pumpkin after Thanksgiving.  Color it silver and keep it for Valentines??
Can I make this last until Christmas??  Maybe if I act like a princess I can . . .
I had this manicure for two weeks.  The upkeep was every night and I kept a bottle of red polish in my purse.

11/14/2012

Sadie's Birth Day

On November 8th, Sadie came to join our family.  Tanner and I went to meet her around noon and then as soon as school was out, we took Emma and Tyler back to meet their new little sister.  A new baby.  All is right with the world.

 Is "Grandma" the funnest thing, or what?  (Actually, if I were saying it the way Tanner does, it would be "gamma.")   I miss those kids.
"Sisters. Sisters.  There were never such devoted sisters."

10/20/2012

Happy Halloween

Just random pictures of some of my Halloween decorations.  Some.



 This is new to my collection:  a Halloween ornament tree.  And for the tree skirt:  an orange and black boa.   Of course.

 ...and a cinnamon broom

And what house doesn't have princess and leopard pumpkins?  (and a leopard spider to boot) I mean, hello.

10/11/2012

Conference Weekend

To start off our Conference Weekend we stopped off in Angle, Utah to spend some time with our friends at their place.  The first thing we did was get on the ATV's and head up to Pole Canyon.  The leaves were stunningly beautiful.  Living in Southern California, I forget that we have an "Autumn." 



 
On the ATV

 Our friends -- Steve and Robyn Brown.  Thank you for a fun time!



 We stopped and picked grass to feed to "Junior" and his harem.  If Junior only knew that a flimsy piece of plywood and an equally flimsy piece of fence was all that was keeping him from freedom, he would simply tap it with his head and he would be outta there!
 Friday morning we left for Provo and then that night we went to the BYU/Utah State game at LaVell Edwards Stadium.  Adam came down from Rexburg to spend the weekend with us and Michael and Benjamin joined us too.  (He had some use-it-or-lose-it points with Southwest)  So 15 month old Benjamin got to tag along. 
We sat pretty close to the rabid Utah State fans.  I'm just glad we won.  It was an ugly game, but it was still a win.  And it's always fun to sing "Rise and Shout."
  Being from Florida, Benjamin didn't know what "cold" was.   The game didn't start until 8 pm (10:00 to their east coast bodies), and because they had flown all day, they were pretty tired.  I held a sleeping Benjamin for at least an hour before they left the game early to go back to the hotel.  That was okay -- no more scoring happened.  Like I said, ugly game.


 Saturday morning we all drove to Salt Lake and checked into our hotel before going to the afternoon session of Conference.  And then I kept Benjamin while all the boys went to Priesthood Meeting.  We went to the City Creek Mall and found a toy store.  He was in heaven!  And then I let him play by the fountains.  Again, HEAVEN.  He walked around enjoying all the water displays.  If it was in the middle of the day, I would have let him walk through the squirting water.  But seeing as he was wearing a sweatshirt because it was cold, I had to be the bad guy.  He was a good sport though.  But I did have to change his clothes anyway before we went to J.B.'s for dinner.  (an after Priesthood tradition)  
Michael and Benjamin left for the airport Sunday morning.  The rest of us went to the afternoon session of Conference (Was this the best Conference ever??) and then said good-bye to Adam.  We drove to Vegas and then home on Monday morning.  What a fun trip.